You wake up one day and you realize that your girlfriend just left you for another guy. You did not even see it coming. You were blindsided by her. Your heart feels like someone just stabbed it with a hot searing knife.
Did you know what just happened was most likely a good thing. Feel lucky that you had not married her. Don’t let what just happened bring you down. Use the situation to make things better for you.
First thing is to realize that they were not the right person for you to spend the rest of your life with. Of course, be grateful for the good times the two of you had together. Don’t let the situation drone out the good feelings you did have.
The next step is to get it through your head that there are many more girls that you can have even better times with. A better one may even be just round the corner waiting for you.
Before you go out onto the dating scene again, let’s do a simple exercise.
Take a piece of paper and write down as many things as you liked about your previous girlfriend. Now write down what you did not like. Really study this list and keep it in mind when meeting new girls. You don’t want to start dating a mere image of your past girlfriend now do you?
Now the time has come for you to get out of the house and start meeting girls. Now, where do you meet them?
Night clubs – this seems to be the most popular place to meet girls. Try to find a club where the music is quite enough to carry on a conversation.
Dancing lessons – this is a great place to meet girls and get to know them in a non-pickup atmosphere.
Museums – like the arts? Go to your local museums. It’s easy to start a conversation with a total stranger whilst looking at the displays. Just ask what she thinks of it.
Online dating – if you a little on the shy side or have limited time to meet girls, online dating may be the way to go. Check out several online dating sites and find the one that seems right for you. Now that you are single again, get out and enjoy meeting new people. Enjoy the excitement and make it a great adventure.