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Sensitive Side

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 23:43:59 +0000

I acknowledge my sensitive side. I recognize the importance of my sensitive side. I understand it shapes me as a person and influences my decisions. I am grateful I have a sensitive side that allows me to feel empathy and sympathy. I am in tune with my emotional and physical sides. My sensitive side helps me connect with people. It helps me understand their lives and challenges. It allows me to see the world from their point of view and experience. I am grateful that my sensitive side helps me notice the details around me. I pay attention to the small nuances in my world. I see how emotions affect all of us. My strong feelings are an asset. I value my sensitivity and feelings. I view them as gifts from the universe. My sensitive side helps me feel what others are feeling. It helps me experience a wide range of emotions. My feelings are in balance. I am able to navigate my emotions and avoid being hurt by others. My sensitive side still allows me to have boundaries. I decide who is able to affect my feelings. I am aware of the joy, pain, and ambivalence in others. Today, I am grateful for my sensitive side and the emotions I feel. I am thankful I have a sensitive soul. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, How can I avoid being hurt by others? 2, What can I do to balance sympathy with action to help others? 3, How can I teach others to embrace their sensitive side?

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Future Focus

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 23:27:58 +0000

I leave the past in the past and focus on the future. I am able to stay focused on the present and the future. My ability to avoid dwelling on the past is increasing. I understand that thinking about the past has negative consequences. There is nothing left for me in the past. I am glad that I learned from my past mistakes and successes. That is the good thing about the past – the lessons it provides. I take those lessons and apply them to my present. Focusing on the past, though, leads to regret. I choose to look forward. I spend five minutes each day to imagine the future I wish to experience. I know that a compelling future is the best way to stay motivated and positive. I work hard in the present to create my future. I can only interact with time in the present moment. I make the most of each moment and look forward to enjoying the future even more. I am able to let go of the past. Time spent on past regrets and mistakes lessens my ability to manage my life and generate success. I have a greater potential for happiness when I leave the past behind. I forgive those that have wronged me. I forgive myself for my past mistakes. Today, I keep my attention on the present and the future. I am permanently leaving the past in my rear view mirror. I leave the past in the past and focus on the future. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, How can I enhance my ability to avoid focusing on the past? 2, What are my goals for the future? 3, What type of life do I dream of living?

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My Support Network

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 23:15:19 +0000

I acknowledge my network’s support. I am grateful for the support I receive from my close network of family and friends. They are the keystone to my success and happiness. My support network is my backbone. My friends and family act as my safety net during times of trouble. They give me advice, provide help and share my grief. My support network is also here for me during times of joy. We share our happiness to multiply it. I reach out to my friends and family to ensure they are part of the celebrations. I turn to my support network during moments of doubt. They calm my worries and reduce my stress. They help me analyze challenges to find answers. They give me everything I need to feel whole again. My support network spends time with me. They make an effort to ensure I am happy. They work together to help me overcome challenges. They create multiple solutions, so I am able to use their minds. My family and friends are my lifeboat in a sea of chaos. They swim to me through the confusion of this world, so I am surrounded by their love and support. Today, I am thankful for my support network. I acknowledge how much they help me during difficult times. I am happy to have people around me who understand my unique needs. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, How can I show my gratitude to my support network? 2, What can I do to ensure I give as much support as I receive? 3, Who can I add to my support network that understands my issues?

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Another Day

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 23:05:26 +0000

I am thankful that I get to live another day. Each day is unique and a blessing to experience. Even those days that seem negative have valuable lessons to teach. I take each day in stride. There are many subtle reasons to be thankful for each and every day. Each day is another opportunity to share time and experiences with those I love. The closeness of my friends and family keeps me going during challenging times and makes me smile during good times. Each day I am able to spend with those I love is a worthwhile day. Living for another day means I can enjoy the beauty of nature. It is ever-changing and a constant source of amazement to me. I feel at peace when I experience the natural world. Each morning I wake up with anticipation of what lies ahead. It is impossible to predict what life may bring, which makes my life so interesting. Another day on Earth is another day to rejoice! I understand that life is short and passes quickly. I am determined to make the most of each day. I am free from worry and concern. The prospect of living another day fills me with excitement. Today, I look forward to another interesting and meaningful day. I use my time wisely and enjoy the process of living. I face challenges directly and with a smile. I am thankful that I get to live another day. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, What have I learned from the challenging times in my life? 2, When have I felt hopeless in the past? Why do things eventually improve? 3, What do I have to look forward to in my life?

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Solutions Come Easily

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 22:52:47 +0000

I easily find solutions to the challenges in my life. I view life as a game. Life presents challenges, and my job is to find the best solution. I enjoy life and enjoy testing myself each day. I feel proud of myself when I am able to find a great solution to a challenge. Solutions come easily to me. I rarely struggle to solve the roadblocks in my life. Even when I do struggle, I quickly remember the many times I have found solutions quickly and easily. This restores my confidence and peace of mind. When faced with a difficult situation, I focus my attention on finding the answer. The best solutions in life are those that I find myself. I am able to calmly focus my mind on creating possible solutions. I assess each possibility rationally and skillfully. An elegant solution is always close at hand. The first step to solving a challenge is determining the desired outcome. I then allow my mind to get to work. Regardless of the activity I am currently engaged in, my mind is hard at work searching for a solution. I am presently surprised by the effectiveness of this approach. Today, I allow myself to easily find solutions to the challenges in my life. I know the right solution when I see it. I am confident in my ability to solve my challenges. I can overcome any obstacle. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, What is the biggest challenge I have successfully overcome? 2, What is the biggest challenge in my life right now? 3, When have I chosen poor solutions? Why?

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Open and Authentic

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 22:29:20 +0000

I am open and authentic. Openness is a primary value of mine. When I am comfortable with being open, I am able to be authentic. Openness and authenticity are high on my list of priorities. Authenticity is challenging. I occasionally feel the need to protect myself from others and hide my true feelings and opinions. I avoid being hard on myself during these times. I am free from the need to be perfect all of the time. I take advantage of the next opportunity to be open and authentic that crosses my path. I find the courage to say no to the things and people that fail to serve me. I rediscover myself and live my life with authenticity. Authenticity underpins everything in my life. My mouth, heart, and feet are in alignment. I say what I feel and do what I say. Children are naturally attracted to authenticity and sincerity. I want to be a source of these qualities to my children. Others respect those that are authentic and open. I share my thoughts, feelings, and opinions and gain my share of respect. Being authentic makes my life easier. I find it easier to respect myself, too. Today, I am renewing my efforts to demonstrate openness and authenticity. The benefits far outweigh the disadvantages. I have the courage to be true to myself. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, When do I lack openness in my life? 2, How have a lack of openness and authenticity cost me? 3, Where can I start to demonstrate a higher level of openness?

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Wonderful Friends

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 22:01:55 +0000

I am blessed with wonderful friends. Life is too short to spend it alone. My friends add to the enjoyment I experience in life. Spending time with friends adds an element to life that I miss when I am alone. My friends are wonderful. I can count on them through thick and thin. Whether I need a shoulder to cry on or a ride to the airport, my friends are there for me. All I have to do is pick up the phone and call. I have many old friends and new friends. My old friends are reliable, and we share a lot in common. My new friends and I share many interests. I look forward to getting to know them better over the years. This blend of old friends and new keeps things comfortable and interesting. I wonder who my new friends will be in 10 years. I do my best to be kind and supportive to my friends. One of the reasons I have such great friends is that I put a lot of energy into these relationships. I help my friends with their challenges and provide loving support. My friendships are a priority for me. Today, I am reconnecting with old friends and making new friends. I remember how blessed I am to have such wonderful friends. My friends are a gift that I greatly appreciate. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, How has my life been enriched by my friends over the years? 2, How can I be an even better friend than I have been? 3, Do I have enough friends to enjoy life optimally?

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Life’s Lessons

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 21:42:35 +0000

Everything happens for my own good. I have faith that life provides me with the experiences I need to grow as a person. I accept this truth and make the best of the situation. I understand that life knows the best way. Some experiences in life are less enjoyable than others. But all experiences teach me something new. Some of the least enjoyable things that happen in my life provide the most profound lessons. I value these lessons and apply them going forward. This way, I am able to avoid repeating my mistakes. The universe is wiser than I am. I trust that everything happens for my own good. I have learned so much from my past challenges that I look forward to managing my future challenges. I often receive what I want, just in a different manner than I expected. Many of my failures result in greater successes than I ever dreamt of. I feel a gentle hand guiding me in a positive direction. I avoid feelings of frustration when things fail to work out the way I desire. I know that something even better is right around the corner. I am patient and accept what life has to offer. Today, I recognize the lessons that life provides me. I look on the bright side of all situations. I know that everything that happens to me happens for my own good. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, What are my greatest challenges and what can I learn from them? 2, What are three situations that seemed negative at the time but worked out for the best? 3, How have I grown as a person over the last decade?

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Humility

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 12:50:42 +0000

I am humble. When I think of others, I admire those who are humble the most. Being humble allows me to demonstrate that I am human. My missteps remind me of my fallibility. My humility ensures I can learn from my errors and move on. To me, the word humble means to behave in a modest and unpretentious way. I avoid being prideful or arrogant. I feel these characteristics are undesirable and in direct contrast to being humble. My life is full of serenity and contentment, largely because I strive to be unassuming and without presumption. I choose to show humility, especially when accepting compliments from others or making apologies. Because I believe that each human being is unique and important, my humility remains steady whether I am dealing with a supervisor at work, a close friend, or a family member. The riches I experience in life remind me of the importance of remaining humble, regardless of the situation. Today, I reflect on my humility and share it with others. My life is rewarding and fulfilling because I practice humility. Self-Reflection Questions: 1, Do I consider myself to be humble? Why or why not? 2, What are some examples of how I have been humble when relating to others? 3, How can I practice humility more often and how will doing so make my life better?

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Daily Gratitude

Derrick Mkandla — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 12:37:06 +0000

I practice gratitude daily. I know that in order to have a happy life, gratitude is necessary and thankfulness requires cultivation. Therefore, I practice gratitude daily. I take time before bed to remind myself of all the things for which I am thankful. Reflecting on my day, I consider my positive actions and the kindness of others throughout the day. In a very literal way, I count my many blessings. Also, I notice the gifts that come to me through no action of my own. Perhaps I have a special skill or talent, or maybe I was born into a loving family. Whatever the blessing, I take note and say a small prayer of thanks. To further cultivate my gratitude, I may also choose to engage in spiritual pursuits. Whether I practice at home or at a formal place of worship, with ritual or with spontaneity, I ensure that my spiritual life includes many thanks. I take every opportunity to experience my gratitude. I know that many people go through life feeling unloved or unwelcome. And with the challenges inherent in living, I can easily see how these feelings could arise. However, I know that even in my darkest of times, I have much to be thankful for. And on my best days, my heart overflows naturally. Today, I make an effort to remember my many blessings. My life is always better when I live with a thankful heart. Therefore, I practice gratitude daily. Self-Reflection Questions: 1. What are some of the blessings in my life right now? 2. What can I be thankful for about my family? 3. Do I have any skills or talents for which I can be grateful? If so, what are they?

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